Why do people quarrel in the 1st place?
- It's because they think that what they are standing for is right, the universal acceptance of the term 'Right'.
- That their mind processes the subject of quarrel as it is perceived as correct, reflecting on how they were brought up and the people around them which influence how they think.
- That they are selfish, fighting for what's best and most beneficial for them.
- That they never try to put their selves in other people's shoes. (being selfish la jugak)
- That when a misunderstanding occur, they did not try to cure it in the early stages, letting it go waaaay beyond what they should be talking about and in the end, it is all pointless.
- Dendam.
- Jealousy.
- Or simply, they are thinking childishly that it doesn't even matter what they are fighting about. Because even they themselves don't know what they are fighting for, it's just for the sake of well......................fighting.(ini yang paling stupid).
All i'm trying to say is, I have experienced encountering a fight with people with these reasons to fight. And i'm still learning how to handle it.
Not to lie, I also have been the one who had these thoughts whenever i get into a fight.
So it's normal I assume?
Sunday, April 26, 2009
Siapa Betul?
Posted by Naddddddd. at 11:18 PM
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4 comments:
Teknik paling best nak terus fight dengan orang yang just nak win, bukan sebab betul salah - Buat bodo~
And lepaskan tensi sambil memekak dalam shower!
laughing gas la wei. hahaha
tak pun, mungkin kita perlu kan seseorang yang kena separuh rasuk dan saya jadi imam.
XP
mungkin lepas tu ada yg offer nak pegangkan handbag awak. *wink wink*
nyamuk : memekak dlm shower, housemates mati dgr =p
azik : pening wei hari2.lol
tasha : saya tgh mencari calon imam baru utk menagani masalah saya.sudi tak awak volunteer? =)
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